the list of exploring (part two)

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EXPLORE (part two)

7)      Solo, small groups, big groups… which are best? Find out!

There is an endless discussion going on: which kind of group is the best for discovering new places? Is it just with a select group of friends, should it be the size of a small invading army, or is it albeit better to head off only accompanied by your own shadow? According to me, it depends on the destination, the mood, and the purpose of the journey ahead. But why take my word for it? Try them all. Just remember that while travelling for at least two weeks, you really start to know your travelling buddies. It can be a revelation so choose wisely.

8)      Always stay on hour longer.

When feeling that everything has come to an end. The conversations lull, the joker’s emptying his bowls into the sink… At a certain point you get the feeling that it is time to head on. Well, if you stay just a little bit longer, you might be rewarded with a unique experience. Always go the extra mile.     

9)      Be aware of your comfort zone and its limitations.

We all know it: the invisible barrier. The moment you cross the line, goose bumps appear, sweat starts dripping, and you just want to get out asap. This barrier is flexible. Try to expand it, break it as much as possible. Feel its pressure, accept it, but break free anyway, even if it’s only by one small step. Some just rush face forward through the propellers of life (like Henry Rollins). While others slowly push on. You can compare it with gently pushing your toe deeper into hot water until your body gets used to the temperature.
While we travel we usually have a habit of expanding our horizon, so why stop discovering when you’re back home?

And finally

10)      Search seclusion whenever needed;

away from distractions and the day to day hustle.  Mind your inner peace. Sometimes it is just as good to stay in and listen to the rain tapping on the roof, and watch the drops glide down the window. We all need some time off. Turn off the phone. Let your wild thoughts and daily stress roar past you, only mind your breathing. Then take your time to cook a nice meal or head out to a quiet restaurant. And take your time to savor the flavor.  

Well that’s about it for the first list, there are two more coming up, but they will appear with a few days interval. Otherwise you might get a bit overwhelmed. So why don’t you use it to try at least one or two. As I said earlier: it doesn't have to be big. Usually it's easier to make small changes and keep that up, than to make a life changing course and to fall back into your old habits in mere weeks.
Let me know how it went.